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Goodness is It's Own Reward (Dharma Talk)

I discuss the "paradigm of meritocracy, and how it can set up wrong expectations when we go about our daily lives.  I also discuss the Buddhist practice of Intoku; explaining how it can help motivate us toward Right Action when there is no clear benefit to ourselves or others.


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  1. Melané Fahner-BothaDecember 30, 2022 at 10:35 PM

    What a wonderfully serendipitous talk, Alex. As l consider the challenges I set myself for the past year and look forward to the new year and consider 3 new #conquerorchallenges I intend to set, your talk has given me a new perspective on how to face them. The challenge of daily life will be my 4th!

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