tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-177542608585035781.post7182164648166545571..comments2024-03-27T09:49:49.956-07:00Comments on The Same Old Zen : Impermanence, Karma, And The Zen Of A Broken HeartKakuyohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11771901881944863843noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-177542608585035781.post-15451337509607601592017-01-08T09:42:29.863-08:002017-01-08T09:42:29.863-08:00I understand where this person is coming from. The...I understand where this person is coming from. The greatest love I've ever felt for a man ended almost a year ago. I'm having trouble moving on. I try and stay positive and I feel good when I'm able to give someone a smile or do something kind for someone but when I'm alone... Memories and emotions feel like they are eating me aliveAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11925908921734500044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-177542608585035781.post-12302681736617807062017-01-02T06:59:17.284-08:002017-01-02T06:59:17.284-08:00Overall, this article is representative that you a...Overall, this article is representative that you are handling the upset and doing so better than many. This is always worth a shoutout as "Well done!" It does not satisfy a person at the inner level of who they think they are. One can not be satisfied at the level of suffering for the idea of self, not real is held to be wounded. Resolve the self, the self that clings to the loving and caring notion of self that there is no reason as to why anyone would break with that about the self, a high held. Would you dare asy yourself, "Well why the hell would anyone stay with me a <br />__________________________ (fill in your own they you fear you might be that it is okay even for you to walk away from).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02247418972294575098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-177542608585035781.post-60186757441498134512017-01-01T10:50:55.898-08:002017-01-01T10:50:55.898-08:00Metta to you. May be you come out of your sufferri...Metta to you. May be you come out of your sufferring.<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04823614664323974686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-177542608585035781.post-85387614547468343142016-12-31T19:27:39.439-08:002016-12-31T19:27:39.439-08:00On thing that you have to remember is that your wh...On thing that you have to remember is that your whole body is in shock too. Your nervous system is in shock because her vibe is not around you. Your ears are in shock because you are not hearing her sounds. Your heart is hurting because it has taken a beating without warning. Your eyes hurt because you don't see the delight object you are used to. Your skin hurts because it is not being touched and touching. Like death, a part of you is suddenly ripped away and you have to let yourself be sick for awhile and recuperate slowly, slowly. You don't stop loving because a long term relationship is not going to happen now. You still keep loving as friends who know each other well. Forget impermanence, it won't help, try Metta to her and to yourself: May you be well, may you be safe, may you be happy. May I be well. May I be safe. May I be happy. and sit with that. Find the Metta Sutta and read it everyday, including her. She is still part of you, just not there.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11052946984743179485noreply@blogger.com